Hey! I apologize for the very long delay! It looks like my last blog post was posted over a year ago. Haha. I am really sorry about that. One of the reasons why I have not posted a new blog post for more than 12 months is that I experienced the dreaded writer’s block, and I need to fix something for this blog. For the benefit of those who are interested, I transferred to a new host and a new domain registrar. t took me a great while to sort things out and to work on the whole transferring process. I decided not to make any blog post unless and until I have finished the whole transfer process to my new webhost and my new domain registrar.
So one fateful day, I was confronted with a question about relationships. I am not an expert in this kind of things, but I think I know a thing or two about it. But one of my close friends asked me a question about finding a date through dating apps (like Tinder) and other dating site (like welovedates.com or other divorced dating sites). He asked me if I can help him find a date from dating sites or dating apps. So, being a good friend that I am, I told him that I would gladly help him to find the right one for him, but he needs to disclose some pointers to me as to what kind of a person he is actually looking for. He explained to me all of the pointers that I need and we proceeded to the whole process of finding a date for him. I kept on telling him that if in case he would go out with the people he will meet in dating sites/apps, just be in his best behavior and do not forget to be himself all the time. I said that to him because the “best foot forward” approach does not seem to work anymore, due to the fact that we all know that we are all humans, and as humans, it is part of our nature to change from time to time. Hence, what could have been my friend’s best qualities now may change in the near future, so he might as well do not try to be someone that is far from his real personality. Also, I told him that it will be fun if he break lose to his rigid mindset, and be more spontaneous and open to his date. There is a huge probability that his date will be more at ease with him if he becomes more spontaneous, and, if possible, he can even be more adventurous than his usual.
You see, I love to give this kind of advice, especially when I know that the recipient of my advice is someone who is struggling to get by or to move on from a very toxic relationship. This friend that I mentioned above just broke up with his supposed partner, and he is trying to get through the sadness, that is why I willingly obliged to help him to find a date. It took him a while to decide whether or not he will go bak to the dating scene, and I am so glad that he is willing to bounce back and put himself back out there.