Room revamp

Hey there! I have been out of the blogosphere for quite a while because I have been busy with all my responsibilities. Haha. I just entered this so-called “adulting” stage in life. I just started working in my first job, and I have been a diligent employee. Haha. I must admit that I get stressed and pressured, but I still surviving, so I think I do not need to worry about anything. Haha. My co-workers have been very nice to me and they were courteous enough to guide me in everything that I need to learn about the job. Although there are few bad eggs in our department, it is a good place to work with (hopefully!).


Since I just started working in my first job, I am planning to buy some decorations or ornaments for my room after receiving my first paycheck. I am planning to throw out all of my clutter and put for indoor plants inside my room. I think I need to start investing on things that will help me feel more relaxed while I am relaxing at home. Also, I intend to buy some lantern roofs because I have never seen our house having that kind of ornament. Maybe it will add some beauty in it.


Also, I am about to finish my first semester, on my last academic year, in school. Maybe I really need to make some home arrangements and a little bit of improvement in our house. I am set to graduate by 2019, and I need to study for 5 months for a certain licensure exam, so I think I need to make my study corner and study area clutter-free and with a very strategic ventilation and lighting. I hope I can finish every thing by the end of the year. Haha.


To date, I am currently looking for some good replacements for my old furniture and tables. Also, I am looking for some cheap new decorations that will add an extra “oomph” in my room. This process is so tedious and confusing at the same time. I hope I can find more time to do some window shopping for some home decorations. I will definitely post a picture here on my blog (or maybe on twitter and on instagram) about my home improvement plans and home decoration.

Oh! I almost forgot that the holidays are almost near! Maybe I need to re-decorate our house into something Christmas-y or maybe a home decor theme related to the holidays and for the New Year’s. Haha. I love decorating for the holidays, because I get to do it with my family. (Oh, and do not forget the Christmas dinner, Christmas gifts, the kris kringle, and the Christmas carols! All in one fun-filled day!).


So how about you? When was the last time you re-decorated your room or your house? Was it something that you have always wanted to do? Have you ever tried using lantern roofs before? Do you like it? Come on, share your home decorating tips to us and might just be a big help to me anf to my readers! Thank you!

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Fresh start

When things are falling apart and you think you need to move on, there is no sense in thinking twice. There are those who have a hard time moving forward from what broke them and there are those who takes so many years before they can bounce back and put themselves out there again. Let me tell you that there is nothing wrong in asking for help from the people who are very close to you. Also, it is never too late to have or build a support system to help you cope up when you are hurt. If one relationship just ended, it is never too late to begin another one, regardless of your age and/or status. As long as you already gave your self an ample time to heal and you are prepared to love or to meet new people again, then you can start dating again. Maybe you can arrange a night out with your closest friends, or maybe you can prepare a family dinner to help you get by or go through all the sadness that the whole moving on process entails.

Solitude can be a positive thing to some of us. Some people enjoy their precious alone time to focus on the things that they love to do (like their hobbies) or to devote that time to accomplish things that they are obligated to do (like their chores). But then, solitude can also have some effects that may work against one’s favor. If a person is not used to being alone, the feeling of abandonment and sadness might creep in eventually, and it may take too much emotional energy from such person. Hence, we must learn to enjoy solitude by way of making our own version of “alone time”. We can use our alone time in finding a date thru Tinder or free senior dating websites (depending on your age bracket, of course, assuming that you are looking for local cougars in my area or in your area), or maybe just try to find a person to hang out with. I personally recommend to look for a person to hang out with, and then observe if you both have a connection of some sort, then, you can probably decide after few months if you both want to continue dating each other, or maybe just hang out and remain friends. Either way, it will still work in your benefit.

Oh, do not forget to use your alone time as your moment to heal yourself. Most, if not, all of us are damaged or scarred because a certain relationship needs to end, albeit inadvertently. There is this long time rule that we should not dive in a new relationship without moving on from the previous relationship. Thus, take your time in healing yourself first. It does not matter how many months or years it will take, as long as you know to your self that you are happy and you can fully commit to a relationship. You’ll be surprised one day, you find your heart is brave enough to love again, or at least date again.

I personally think that anyone can still date even if they are in their 40’s or 50’s already, especially if you took the time to heal your self from your past relationship. It’s never too late to love again, and it is never to late to “test the waters” again. Haha. If a man or a woman in his/her 20’s or 30’s can openly date anyone, same effect goes to the middle aged people. All of us are equally allowed to meet new people and try to start or establish a connection between one another. Not only that it is in our (human) nature to to start and maintain a social connection to other people, it also serves as a very good avenue to expand our network that we might benefit from in the long run. Thus, even if the connection that was established did not blossom into a romantic one, at least one or two persons are added into a person’s network. The possibilities are endless! It is never too late to date again, especially if it is for the right reasons and it if is done in perfect timing. One must not be hindered to meet and date over people just because he or she thinks he/she is too old to go back to the dating scene. It will not matter if you do not let it, and it should not affect you unless you allow your self to be affected.



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Bounce back

Hey! I apologize for the very long delay! It looks like my last blog post was posted over a year ago. Haha. I am really sorry about that. One of the reasons why I have not posted a new blog post for more than 12 months is that I experienced the dreaded writer’s block, and I need to fix something for this blog. For the benefit of those who are interested, I transferred to a new host and a new domain registrar. t took me a great while to sort things out and to work on the whole transferring process. I decided not to make any blog post unless and until I have finished the whole transfer process to my new webhost and my new domain registrar.


So one fateful day, I was confronted with a question about relationships. I am not an expert in this kind of things, but I think I know a thing or two about it. But one of my close friends asked me a question about finding a date through dating apps (like Tinder) and other dating site (like or other divorced dating sites). He asked me if I can help him find a date from dating sites or dating apps. So, being a good friend that I am, I told him that I would gladly help him to find the right one for him, but he needs to disclose some pointers to me as to what kind of a person he is actually looking for. He explained to me all of the pointers that I need and we proceeded to the whole process of finding a date for him. I kept on telling him that if in case he would go out with the people he will meet in dating sites/apps, just be in his best behavior and do not forget to be himself all the time. I said that to him because the “best foot forward” approach does not seem to work anymore, due to the fact that we all know that we are all humans, and as humans, it is part of our nature to change from time to time. Hence, what could have been my friend’s best qualities now may change in the near future, so he might as well do not try to be someone that is far from his real personality. Also, I told him that it will be fun if he break lose to his rigid mindset, and be more spontaneous and open to his date. There is a huge probability that his date will be more at ease with him if he becomes more spontaneous, and, if possible, he can even be more adventurous than his usual.

You see, I love to give this kind of advice, especially when I know that the recipient of my advice is someone who is struggling to get by or to move on from a very toxic relationship. This friend that I mentioned above just broke up with his supposed partner, and he is trying to get through the sadness, that is why I willingly obliged to help him to find a date. It took him a while to decide whether or not he will go bak to the dating scene, and I am so glad that he is willing to bounce back and put himself back out there.

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